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Showing posts from November, 2015

All about the DUFF

The sad part is I really don't think I even have to explain what DUFF means.  However, just in case you missed the movie (or just haven't heard it in pop-culture), DUFF = designated ugly fat friend.  
Well, since I used to love when #ConfessionNight started trending on twitter, I can give you one right now.  I used to be a DUFF.  Now, I've never thought I was ugly, but I can't help what went in the definition.  I can handle unflattering, but not ugly.  Let's get back to used to be a DUFF.  
I'm still FF, but I'm more confident.  Therefore, I am not longer a DUFF!  Once you take away the power of the word (or acronym), it will not hurt you anymore.  Honestly, it never hurt me in the first place because I was / am actually friends with the people, but I am a few sizes larger than then.  The thing is, I'm okay with that.  I'm okay with my size.  Like I said, I'm more confident now.  The word doesn't bother me.  On the other hand, there are some p…

The preview

Last week, I had to take a couple of days off work because I was sick.  I went from having a great time with friends the previous night to waking up with a fever over 100 the next day.  Not exactly sure why my body decided to show out, but it could have been a good thing.  

On my second (and final) day home, I was having all of these thoughts about how I could make this blog better.  I mean, this is literally my baby.  I love it.  I nurture it.  I do what I can to make it better and help it grow.  I had written a particular post earlier in the year and it seemed to be a hit.  Quite frankly, it has been one of my most read blogs this year.  When something works for you, might as well give it another shot, right?

Well, that is exactly what I am doing.  Now, I'm not going to exactly tell you what is going down just yet because I am still working out details and making contacts.  However, I will tell you this, I am excited and I have a feeling this is going to be something great.  Each …