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I do well at keeping my private life private.  I'm the best at keeping a low profile.  I'm absolutely awesome when it comes to the silent treatment.  And quite frankly, I can disappear like no one else.  But right now, I need to let you in.  No, I'm not giving you any tea about my last relationship.  If that's what you're looking for, stop reading.  Right now, it's all about me and some things I'm feeling.  

There is a trio of us that do our absolute best to meet twice a month.  Typically, it's for dinner because we are pros at shutting down restaurants.  Then we move out to the parking lot and continue the laughs.  We also have a pretty fun group chat too.  That's where this started.  

I confessed that I was having a hard time with something, but needed to talk it out.  For the second time that weekend, we met to eat and chat.  I had a confession.  

When it comes to dating while plus, I'm not confident at all!!!  It isn't rejection that is the…

C to the E's been a while.  Seriously, it's been a long while.  Well, let me get you caught up.  Since New Year's Day, I've lost 46.3 pounds.  My work schedule got all the way cray cray because of Hurricane Florence.  I have gone through a breakup.  And I finally decided to make the following announcement...

I'm Celibate!!!
I haven't had sex since January 2017.  I'm working on breaking my streak of three and a half years.  For those of you trying to do the math, I'm on a mission to make it past July 2020!  The only exceptions is if someone comes along and decides to change my last name...or at least adds  hyphen to it.  
Let me tell you a few things celibacy is not... Celibacy is not you asking me if we can have sex.  I've told you my stance on the subject.  Either move on or take this time to join me in celibacy. Celibacy is not a phase.  At least to me it isn't.  Either you are cool with my lifestyle or you need to move on with your life. Celibacy …