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Many Years of Thursdays

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Enneagram Type

Recently, I've fallen in love with podcasts.  Google Play and Spotify have been helping me with this.  Eventually, I'll do a dedicated post for podcasts, but right now, I'm going somewhere else.  Two of the podcasts I listen to (Dateology and Girls Night with Stephanie May Wilson) had mentioned Enneagram types.  I totally accept that I'm a bit of a weirdo and that meant I was absolutely intrigued. In other words, I took the test .  I am Enneagram Type 6w5.  Here are some traits that go with this type.  Personality Type seek support and guidance be hard-working and intellectual fear losing their stability project their feelings onto others think logically and analytically I am here for all of these except projecting my feelings.  I'm an introvert and I tend to shut down.  Not trying to be rude, but sometimes I'm just not cool with being around people.  At the time this post is being written, I've been out two weekends in a row.  Next weekend,